A fallacy that dismisses legitimate grievances by comparing them to supposedly worse grievances elsewhere. "You think you have problems? What about X?" The fallacy doesn't address the grievance itself; it just points to someone else's greater suffering as if that negates the original complaint. It's the logic of "children are starving in Africa, so you can't complain about your job." The Fallacy of Relative Grievance is beloved of those who want to shut down discussion rather than engage with it, who would rather change the subject than address the issue. It ignores that multiple grievances can coexist, that suffering is not a zero-sum game, and that pointing to worse problems elsewhere doesn't solve the problem here.
Example: "She complained about workplace harassment. He responded with the Fallacy of Relative Grievance: 'Women in other countries can't even go to school. You should be grateful.' Her harassment wasn't addressed; it was just relativized away. The comparison didn't help her; it silenced her. That was the point."
by Dumu The Void February 20, 2026
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