Trying to navigate a magnetic tie when the North and South poles keep shifting. It feels like falling into that classic tug-of-war, where closeness feels like "too much," so silence becomes a safety net. The "magnetic" part is definitely real, we’ve always had a way of finding the same frequency, even when the signal gets messy. The challenge has always been what we do with the love in the quiet moments.
The "unloving" part is never the easy bit. Magnetic or not, I think we both just want to feel understood.
The "unloving" part is never the easy bit. Magnetic or not, I think we both just want to feel understood.
I’ve been sitting with your thoughts on why you pulled back. It’s a strange thing, isn't it? Falling short on words, comprehension of our own feelings, stuck with emotions, calculating words, how not to feel guilty?
I’ve always valued our fantasia closeness and it's good to know we’re still on the same side, even from a distance.
It’s interesting how we navigate this; the pull is real but so is the push. I am not avoidant. As I’ve told you before, I've only been mirroring the space you needed and created in past and present. Mirrored not out of ego or pride but just to make you realise that I understand the "push and pull" and the need to retreat when a connection gets intense—the fear of liability, of not keeping up and you ending up not giving the connection a chance at all.
I want you to know there’s no pressure on this end. You won’t be the "bad guy" if you decide this isn't for you, so please don't stay out of curiosity or guilt. I’d rather have your real presence than a ghost of it. I’m staying steady, matching the pace you’ve set and keeping things honest at my end. I am at peace with whatever clarity comes next. Magnetic soul tie intact.
I’ve always valued our fantasia closeness and it's good to know we’re still on the same side, even from a distance.
It’s interesting how we navigate this; the pull is real but so is the push. I am not avoidant. As I’ve told you before, I've only been mirroring the space you needed and created in past and present. Mirrored not out of ego or pride but just to make you realise that I understand the "push and pull" and the need to retreat when a connection gets intense—the fear of liability, of not keeping up and you ending up not giving the connection a chance at all.
I want you to know there’s no pressure on this end. You won’t be the "bad guy" if you decide this isn't for you, so please don't stay out of curiosity or guilt. I’d rather have your real presence than a ghost of it. I’m staying steady, matching the pace you’ve set and keeping things honest at my end. I am at peace with whatever clarity comes next. Magnetic soul tie intact.
by My ❤️ flows February 27, 2026
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