trauma shaming

When someone who has been affected mentally or psychologically by a trauma, or even a bad upbringing, is criticized for the behavior they display as a result of the trauma, with those criticizing seemingly forgetting, or not knowing the reason behind this behavior. Some may continue to criticize the person with the trauma even when explained the reason, claiming that the trauma doesn't "justify" their behavior. In the case of fictional characters, expect one to call a trauma-stricken character "annoying" for lashing out.

Commenter: "Ugh, just watching Degrassi Junior High right now and Spike is so rude towards Shane! Like why is she like that towards that poor boy?"
Another commenter: "Dude, she literally has an absent father and she got pregnant at 14. Stop trauma shaming.".

by Spike from Degrassi November 8, 2021

Po-shame

The act of shaming someone for appearing as a doppelgänger of the dragon warrior; a.k.a. Po from the five time academy award winning film Kung Fu Panda.

Johnny Po-shamed Lizzo for looking like the Walmart limited time Women’s March edition of Po.

by Spartanddawgs1 September 5, 2021

Grohl Shaming

The act of doing something so despicable that the nicest guy in the music industry is disgusted by you.

"Dude the baby on the Nirvana album is suing the band for child porn!"
"After all that money he made? He's totally grohl shaming himself"

by Jacky Daytona August 25, 2021

privilege shame

Shaming or dismissing someone for aspects of their existence they had no control over (parents, genetics, place of birth etc) which people consider to be "privilege" today.

Becky : Tom, you can't have an opinion on abortion because you're a dude. #maleprivilage
Jesse : Becky, you can't just privilege shame Tom. He's a gynecologist for crying out loud.

by iliketits69 June 15, 2021

Tool Shame

The act of shaming someone for working with inexpensive hand tools. Usually done by someone who has poor impluse control and spends thousands of dollars on tool truck tools (ie.. Snap-on). This person has an IQ of less than 100 and cannot do the simplest cost benefit analysis to realize that they are the moron for investing in over priced tools.

Shamer... Yee Yee, them there Harbor Freight wrenches ain't as good my Snap-On ones.

Shamee.. Pound sand you dumb redneck and quit trying to tool shame me.

by Kram Larry October 28, 2022

Shame Fapping

When you masturbate to something shameful

Billy was crying while shame fapping to a picture of his mom in a bikini.

by Frankie Ballsack January 26, 2022

Shame rape

When a person identifying as trans shames someone into having sex with them by calling them names or threatening violence or self harm if they don’t comply.

I was shame raped into having sex with a MtF transgender person because they said if I didn’t have sex with them I was a TERF

by Gwendy March 8, 2021