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Self-Serving Argument

An argument crafted from the ground up not to find truth or even to genuinely persuade a neutral party, but to defend your position, justify your actions, or win favor with a specific audience that already agrees with you. Its structure, evidence, and emotional appeals are all tailored for a verdict of "not guilty" from the jury of your own ego or your in-group.
Example: "His email to the boss was a self-serving argument masterpiece. It framed his missed deadline as 'pivoting to ensure quality,' presented his team's work as his own solo 'leadership initiative,' and cast subtle blame on a colleague for 'supply chain delays.' Its purpose wasn't to inform, but to secure a bonus and shield his reputation."
by AbzuInExile January 31, 2026
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Self-Serving Debate

The act of entering or structuring a debate with the primary goal of enhancing your own reputation, humiliating an opponent, or rallying your base, rather than testing ideas or seeking truth. You choose topics you know you can "win" on style points, you debate less-skilled opponents, and you use every procedural trick to control the frame. The debate is a tool for self-aggrandizement, not a vehicle for discovery.
Example: "The influencer's 'public debate' was pure self-serving debate. They picked a fringe opponent with poor speaking skills, controlled the moderators, and used slick graphics to mock rather than engage. It wasn't designed to enlighten viewers; it was a staged victory designed to generate clips for their followers and sell merchandise that said 'I Debated Logic and Won.'"
by AbzuInExile January 31, 2026
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self described truth seeker

An overcomplicated way of outing yourself a liar.
Asda Jim is a self described truth seeker and amateur journalist.
by HowToQuotePro February 9, 2026
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self-geek

Somebody who thinks he/she is a geek.
"So what are you on?"
"Uhm… I dunno?"
"Pal, you're not geek, you're self-geek."
by Misunaki February 10, 2026
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The emotionally motivated tendency to seek and interpret evidence in ways that protect or enhance one's self-image. When success occurs, we confirm it was due to our skill; when failure occurs, we confirm it was due to external factors. We remember our contributions vividly and others' forgetfully. We judge our own ethically ambiguous actions by our intentions, and others' identical actions by their outcomes. This bias isn't about accuracy; it's about maintaining a coherent, positive narrative of the self.
Self-Serving Confirmation Bias Example: You ace a test and attribute it to intelligence. You fail a test and blame the unfair questions or lack of sleep. Your coworker, observing your performance, sees the opposite pattern in you. Both of you are exhibiting Self-Serving Confirmation Bias. The ego is not a neutral observer of your life; it is a lawyer, and its client—the self—is always innocent, always capable, always the hero of its own story.
by Dumu The Void February 11, 2026
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